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When people think about BDSM and kink, they’re typically thinking about dungeons, whips, and chains. But BDSM isn’t all about the equipment. At its core, BDSM — which stands for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism — is about fulfilling one’s more extreme fantasies. I...

If you’re craving a lil something more to add to your sex life (you: “pls no more missionary”) allow me to introduce a simple, cheap, and super effective sexcessory: massage candles. These candles are perfect for experimentation and seeing what works for you and your partner. They’re not as inte...

Massages are my absolute favorite – if I could receive them 24/7, I would. And now that I’ve discovered massage candles, I have fell in love even more. If you haven’t given them a try, you’re definitely missing out! In particular, Kama Sutra makes a gorgeous massage oil candle that is made of oil, r...

A penis pump is one of a few treatment options for the inability to get or maintain an erection sufficient for sex (erectile dysfunction). A penis pump consists of a plastic tube that fits over the penis, a hand or battery-powered pump attached to the tube, and a band that fits around the base of th...

Do Penis Pumps Work? Broadly, regardless of your chosen brand or type, vacuum erection pumps will all work on your penis along the following lines: When placing your flaccid penis inside the tube of your chosen pump and holding the device’s seal base against your pubic area no air can get inside...

Sex can be romantic, fun, or even exciting, but sometimes it’s none of those things. Sometimes it’s just, well, boring. According to data in the Journal of Sex Research, 27 percent of women and 41 percent of men are sexually dissatisfied in their current relationship. From lack of time to medical...

Things to consider Libido refers to sexual desire, or the emotion and mental energy related to sex. Another term for it is “sex drive.” Your libido is influenced by: biological factors, such as testosterone and estrogen levels psychological factors, such as stress levels socia...

Is sex really that important? As more and more research is done on the subject, it’s becoming clearer that having healthy sex is essential to a healthy life. Sex can even help you to live longer. According to Dr. Irwin Goldstein, Director of Sexual Medicine at Alvarado Hospital, if you read the ...